No sex till marriage dating
So, sexual desire is a big deal to us, because it was first a big deal to God.It is a gift, but it needs to be , which is exactly where we're having trouble today.Yet, at the same time, I knew couples who did it right.They met, fell in love, dated and waited until they were married to have sex.Does waiting to have sex until after getting married really improve the quality of sex?
"Virginity demonstrates the basic preciousness of one's integrity - a spiritual specialness which one wishes to only give to one of the opposite sex with whom they are prepared to share everything for life" - Keith Sanders, UK Sex sells, and thus we constantly hear about the so-called ‘benefits’ of having an active, even promiscuous, sex life.
At a Mormon website Busby was even quoted as saying "When couples become sexual early in the relationship ... Couples who wait spend time talking and sharing their life, getting to know each other in other ways, strengthening their relations and creating greater relationship satisfaction." The website referred to Busby as "Brother Busby," with "brother" being a term used by Mormons to refer to males sharing their faith.
Come on, Brother Busby, are you objectively interpreting your data here or merely preaching to us?
There seemed to be a special connection between them that made me wonder, It started me on a quest to discover what I call "practical abstinence." All of the "true love waits" messages mean nothing if they can't be put into practice.
And that seems to be where many Christians fall short. You can't jump into dating and expect that sexual temptation won't be an issue.